#DearDiarySeries - Part II

This is the second entry of a series for #wetlipwedenesdays called “Dear Diary”. It will contain entries of women living their life as sexually free as they choose. 

DISCLAIMER: The following post was written by an anonymous person. Content may be considered explicit. 

Girl. Girrrrrl. I know I've been missing but let me tell you, I'm in a great mood. I've been on this high for the last couple weeks and I never wanna come down. The sex, the dates, the random freaky texts, the pampering.... Oh did I mention the sex and the head??? Lawd. The mind blowing, back bending —whew chile, I wasnt ready. 

I know what your thinking, "Wow, you and Mr. X really hit it off!!" Yeeaaa.....Hell no we did not! Mr. X is ...Let me tell you about that. So after that awkward lunch in my car, I went over to his truck and he let me in. He was surprised that I even approached him and expressed that he was thinking of stepping his game up. We chopped it up for the rest of lunch, some light touching here and there, then made plans to see each other around 11p that night. 

After a nice bath, I fixed myself up, slipped on a lil bodycon dress with my cute matching bra set underneath and some nice strappy red heels, then made my way over to Mr. X. During the car ride ya girl was setting the mood and had that After Dark by Drake playing. I pulled up to Mr. X townhouse and as he met me outside, he opened the door with this half smile. This man looked like he was ready to lick...me...down. He traced my body with that famous glare and pulled me in with a close hug, the smell of his Polo Black cologne already had me wet. His place was very impressive(I felt a bit shamed cause I know my place was a mess) and he had a nice little set up for us in the living room. 

So this where it turns left. We got comfy, started a little make out session and clothes started to come off. As promised, he starts to go lower and I’m about to lay back, relax and let him go.. to..town. So imagine looking so damn good, having all this pent up energy and this fiiioooonee man in between ya thighs....and he’s lapping like a dog. Making nom nom noises and all this sh!t don't make any sense. NO TYPE OF FINESSE! I felt confused as hell. At one point it sounded like he was whispering to my cookie, saying shit like” yeah..yeah..you like that..you like that chocolate swirl lick”... It..it felt like Diddy was ad-libbing to my cookie, no lie. Though by this time my vibe was DEAD I ain’t wanna kill his vibe so I took over and straddled him. He liked the switch up and his equipment was ready to go, we paused to grab the condom(cause I ain’t reckless outchea!) and I proceeded sing in my head "Im gonna take my horse to the old town road ..." And just like that boom. Mr. X just tapped out then knocked out on the couch. Dissatisfied af, I snuck out shoes in hand and took my self to the hotel bar.

One cocktail in and I’m having this amazing convo with this salt and pepper sexy body man, we’ll call him Mr. Grey. Needless to say, Mr. Grey has been keeping ya girl real busy. Matter of fact I’m about to go meet up with him now. I’ll give you the deets later. 

Until next time....

Oh and can someone tell Mr. X stop ringing my phone I'm busy....

XoXo

“Thotiana”

#OnlineDating

What are the pros and cons with online dating?

Living in 2019, I think it’s safe to say if you are over the age of 21, you’ve downloaded at least one of the following; Tinder,POF, Zoosk, Skout, eHarmony or even Match.com. I’ve had my share of weirdness but I decided to take this topic to the streets!(not frfr I asked on Facebook lol). So let’s see what both men and women had to say:

Hey FBF I need help...Pros and Cons of online dating, relationships, hookups etc?? GO!!

• “run”

• “ I always just received nasty messages, but I know people who have found love! My bro met his wife on POF! I also know a friend that was beaten and raped by a guy she met off POF and she had been seeing him for a month when it happened. I also know someone that met their fiancé on tinder and I also have a guy friend who met a girl on tinder and she showed up at his house with 2 guys with guns..they beat him unconscious, stole all his shit and he was in the hospital for over a week”

• “Con....They gon look on your friend list to see what mutual friend yall got that they can ask weird shit about u too”

• “Cons : double lives”

• “Pros : meeting bad ass ppl that you don’t even have to date date y’all can just be friends. I use bumble. I met all my ppl I hang out with here in Dallas off of there”

• “Con: Catfish, Crazy folk, wasting time.”

• “Pros: meeting cool people. I have a few guys that I've formed great friendships with.”

• “Pros: you get to meet people that you wouldn’t normally meet in your day to day”

• “Cons: (and this also depends on your intentions) most people are only looking for something quick, temporary and easy. There’s always the possibility that something good can come out of it, but the chances are slim.

• “Pros: you will realize staying single is best”

• “Very bad..It's a cheat sheet to your heart it's not genuine”

• “It’s trash bro”

• “Only pro is you might find a super big dick nasty nigga for a one night stand. Dassit”

• “I’m in love and I met mine on POF. We are so much alike it’s scary”

• “its really no different from meeting someone off fb or in a shoppin center... . u just never know...but listen to your intuition and gut feelin. be open minded cautious and most of all CAREFUL”.

• “Convenient and save money by weeding out foolishness”

• “People can literally be crazy…."

• “Cat fishing is always a CON!”

• “Establish relationships and make lifelong friends ..”

  So as you can see online dating versus meeting someone out and about has its ups and downs. There are horror stories and stories that ended in marriage. Nonetheless, dating ain’t easy and it never will be. The most we can hope for is finding someone that allows you to be yourself and brings you happiness……

  What are some of your #onlinedating stories??

#DearDiarySeries - Part I

This is the first post of a series for #wetlipwedenesdays called “Dear Diary”. It will contain entries of women living their life as sexually free as they choose. 

DISCLAIMER: The following post was written by an anonymous person. Content may be considered explicit. 

Dear Diary,

For weeks I’ve been trying to ignore him, but Mr. X is so persistent. Today he made sure we ended up on the elevator alone. As we ascend I could just feel his eyes wrapping around my neck, trailing down my breasts and finishing at my ass. Luckily the ride was short and I quickly swayed myself out the door and around the corner. 

I told myself after my last relationship that I would not get involved with anyone at work. Mr. X wasn’t even on my radar until the company picnic last month, when he made his first advance. He said my cookies tasted good and he loves the way the chocolate just melted on his tongue. Then he proceeded to say that if he had the chance he could make me melt the same way. He was too smooth with it and I didn’t even know he was into big girls. So now every time we’re in the same room he locks eyes with me and I could just feel that familiar pull in my stomach. This ni**a got me hiding from him. Shit, I’m in my car on lunch right now writing this!

I know it’s been a while since I had some vitamin D and quite frankly my toys ain’t doing it for me. I just need some....d**k with no complications lol. Mr. X got it too. I peeped the print, the broad shoulders, the full beard, he’s damn right I’d melt all over that. F**K. Now I’m horny and my little pocket bullet is home. 

This may be a sign cause who do I see parking his truck over by the trees? I know I swore off co workers but f**k it, lemme go see what that mouth do. 

XoXo

“Thotiana” 

#LetsTalk

Wet Lip Wednesday’s. What can I say, it’s all in the title. This section is dedicated to intimacy, relationships and everything under the sun, even your browsing history. *wink wink* Whether it’s with yourself, a man, a woman or both (hehe) we’re gonna talk about it. Now that society has shifted a little towards our side, it’s amazing seeing all this #bodypositivity energy circulating. On this day we’ll get raw cause some of our fellow fluffies are in tune with their sexuality and others want to break down that wall and open up more. We know there’s a daredevil in you that can’t wait to slip on that freakum dress in the back of your closet or that part of you that wants to say “fxxk it go ahead and flirt back” - this is where we’ll drop all the stories and tips towards getting to know you and your wants. 

Is there someone you got your eye on? Do you need help on shooting your shot? Or those of you in relationships, how are you staying interested? Let’s talk.