#OnlineDating
/What are the pros and cons with online dating?
Living in 2019, I think it’s safe to say if you are over the age of 21, you’ve downloaded at least one of the following; Tinder,POF, Zoosk, Skout, eHarmony or even Match.com. I’ve had my share of weirdness but I decided to take this topic to the streets!(not frfr I asked on Facebook lol). So let’s see what both men and women had to say:
Hey FBF I need help...Pros and Cons of online dating, relationships, hookups etc?? GO!!
“run”
“ I always just received nasty messages, but I know people who have found love! My bro met his wife on POF! I also know a friend that was beaten and raped by a guy she met off POF and she had been seeing him for a month when it happened. I also know someone that met their fiancé on tinder and I also have a guy friend who met a girl on tinder and she showed up at his house with 2 guys with guns..they beat him unconscious, stole all his shit and he was in the hospital for over a week”
“Con....They gon look on your friend list to see what mutual friend yall got that they can ask weird shit about u too”
“Cons : double lives”
“Pros : meeting bad ass ppl that you don’t even have to date date y’all can just be friends. I use bumble. I met all my ppl I hang out with here in Dallas off of there”
“Con: Catfish, Crazy folk, wasting time.”
“Pros: meeting cool people. I have a few guys that I've formed great friendships with.”
“Pros: you get to meet people that you wouldn’t normally meet in your day to day”
“Cons: (and this also depends on your intentions) most people are only looking for something quick, temporary and easy. There’s always the possibility that something good can come out of it, but the chances are slim.
“Pros: you will realize staying single is best”
“Very bad..It's a cheat sheet to your heart it's not genuine”
“It’s trash bro”
“Only pro is you might find a super big dick nasty nigga for a one night stand. Dassit”
“I’m in love and I met mine on POF. We are so much alike it’s scary”
“its really no different from meeting someone off fb or in a shoppin center... . u just never know...but listen to your intuition and gut feelin. be open minded cautious and most of all CAREFUL”.
“Convenient and save money by weeding out foolishness”
“People can literally be crazy…."
“Cat fishing is always a CON!”
“Establish relationships and make lifelong friends ..”
So as you can see online dating versus meeting someone out and about has its ups and downs. There are horror stories and stories that ended in marriage. Nonetheless, dating ain’t easy and it never will be. The most we can hope for is finding someone that allows you to be yourself and brings you happiness……
What are some of your #onlinedating stories??